I give you fair warning-- this post is full of whiny complaints. If you don't want to read whiny complaints I suggest you move on. Don't say I didn't warn you.
Yep. Its true. I'm short.
Kai stopped growing when he was 4. The pediatrician first noticed that Kai's height wasn't increasing the way it should at his 5 year check up. He said it probably wasn't a big deal because I'm short so the boy is probably going to be short too. Besides kids drop off their curve all the time and they jump back on soon enough.
A year later he referred us to an endocrinologist who at the first appointment said, yes his growth (or lack there of) was concerning but wanted to make sure that I understood no matter what, he'd probably be short. Uh. Yeah. I get that.
Six months later the endocrinologist referred us to a gastroenterologist. We went over it again. Yes I'm short but yes he should be growing.
About six months later she and my pediatrician referred us to a geneticist. We got on a list and waited 6 months to get an appointment to see the geneticist. We saw him today. He said that he plotted where the boy is on the growth chart and because the boy is the same distance from the bottom curve as I am there isn't really a problem. And maybe if his growth (or lack there of) continues I could send him an email in 3 years. When my 11 year old child is still the size of a 4 year old I'll be sure and send a note his way.
He then went on to insinuate that I'm just upset because he's not going to be tall, as if I have grandiose dreams of raising a basketball player. He obviously hasn't spent a lot of time with Michael. He said that kids stop growing all the time. Mike said, "for FOUR years?" "Well," he said, "that is a little long and the fact that he's only grown 3 centimeters in 4 years is a little alarming. But it isn't like he's in and out of the hospital all the time so just enjoy him."
I find it very insulting that a doctor would think I would put him through all this just because I don't like the fact that he's short. Maybe my concern (as well as the other doctors that referred me to him) is that his lack of growth is obviously being caused by something. That something needs to be figured out in case there are other things it is also causing that we don't know about yet.
There I'm now officially done with my whiny complaints. Though the endocrinologist does have the boy scheduled for a
growth hormone stimulation test as well as whole battery of other tests on Monday. So stear clear I may be in a bad mood then too.